{"id":6553,"date":"2023-06-30T05:08:33","date_gmt":"2023-06-30T05:08:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hertimeromania.com\/?p=6553"},"modified":"2023-11-30T01:16:29","modified_gmt":"2023-11-30T01:16:29","slug":"am-stat-de-vorba-cu-persoane-din-comunitatea-lgbtqia-testimoniale","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hertimeromania.com\/en\/am-stat-de-vorba-cu-persoane-din-comunitatea-lgbtqia-testimoniale\/","title":{"rendered":"Talking to LGBTQIA_ people- Testimonials"},"content":{"rendered":"[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]\n<h4>text: Antonia Ianc si Cezar Popescu<\/h4>\n<h4>ilustratie: Cristina R\u0103doaica<\/h4>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">E final de iunie, adic\u0103 final de Pride Month, dar cred c\u0103 de\u0219i suntem la final, nu ar trebui s\u0103 l\u0103s\u0103m luna asta \u00een spate. Lupta pentru drepturi egale nu se opre\u0219te niciodat\u0103, motiv pentru care azi am decis s\u0103 scoatem \u00een fa\u021b\u0103 impresiile \u0219i g\u00e2ndurile unor oameni din comunitatea LGBTQIA+, care ne-au povestit pu\u021bin din ceea ce tr\u0103iesc ei \u00een fiecare zi.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">(Comunitatea LGBTQIA+ este, din p\u0103cate, \u00een continuare r\u0103u v\u0103zut\u0103 \u00een Rom\u00e2nia, motiv pentru care numele persoanelor cu care am discutat vor r\u0103m\u00e2ne anonime. De asemenea, \u00eentreb\u0103rile sunt adresate unor persoane diferite)<\/span><b><\/b><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><b>\u00a0 \u00a0 1. C\u00e2nd \u021bi-ai f\u0103cut primul come out?<\/b><\/p>\n<ul style=\"text-align: left;\">\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Final de clasa a 7-a, mamei mele.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Primul come out prietenilor l-am f\u0103cut \u00een aprilie 2019, crez\u00e2nd c\u0103 sunt asexual\u0103 pentru c\u0103 nu sim\u021beam atrac\u021bie fa\u021b\u0103 de nimeni.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Primul come out l-am avut \u00een contextul grupului meu de prieteni \u0219i pot spune c\u0103 a fost unul dintre cele mai importante momente din via\u021ba mea, m-am sim\u021bit ca \u0219i cum \u00een sf\u00e2r\u0219it am trecut peste orice fel de fric\u0103 \u0219i am putut sa fiu m\u00e2ndr\u0103 de sexualitatea mea.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><b>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 2. Ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 coming out-ul pentru tine?<\/b><b><\/b><b><\/b><\/p>\n<ul style=\"text-align: left;\">\n<li aria-level=\"1\">\u00censeamn\u0103 s\u0103 am \u00eencredere \u00een toat\u0103 lumea care m\u0103 \u00eenconjoar\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 m\u0103 simt at\u00e2t de safe \u0219i lipsit\u0103 de prejudec\u0103\u021bi \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 pot fi deschis\u0103 cu faptul c\u0103 sunt bi. Nu cred c\u0103 datorez nim\u0103nui explica\u021bii, dar \u00eemi doresc c\u00e2ndva s\u0103 pot purta o conversa\u021bie cu cineva random \u0219i c\u00e2nd ar veni momentul s\u0103 spun c\u0103 sunt queer s\u0103 o fac without second thoughts.<\/li>\n<li aria-level=\"1\">S\u0103 m\u0103 simt destul de safe cu o persoan\u0103 ca s\u0103 pot s\u0103 m\u0103 deschid \u00een leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu sexualitatea mea.<\/li>\n<li aria-level=\"1\">Ca mul\u021bi al\u021bii, mi se pare c\u0103 ideea de a-\u021bi anun\u021ba oficial orientarea sexual\u0103 sau identitatea de gen pune presiune inutil\u0103 asupra oamenilor \u0219i \u00eent\u0103re\u0219te no\u021biunea c\u0103 straight este standardul, normalul. Pentru mine, coming out-ul a \u00eensemnat s\u0103 le spun prima dat\u0103 prietenilor mei despre sentimentele pe care le aveam pentru o fat\u0103, a\u0219a cum le-a\u0219 fi spus despre orice alt crush.<\/li>\n<li aria-level=\"1\">Libertate, asumare, autonomie, dar \u0219i comunitate (conexiune).<\/li>\n<li aria-level=\"1\">Eliberare,motiva\u021bie.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><b>\u00a0 \u00a0 3. Care a fost momentul \u00een care ai realizat c\u0103 faci parte din comunitate?<\/b><b><\/b><\/p>\n<ul style=\"text-align: left;\">\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Momentul \u00een care am realizat c\u0103 fac parte a fost interesant, nu pot s\u0103 numesc exact un eveniment, au fost mai multe, dar \u00een momentul \u00een care am sim\u021bit fluturi \u00een stomac pentru o fat\u0103 mi-a picat fisa.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nu cred c\u0103 a fost neap\u0103rat un moment anume, \u0219tiam asta \u00eenc\u0103 de c\u00e2nd eram mic\u0103, dar nu credeam c\u0103 exist\u0103 o etichet\u0103 pentru asta sau c\u0103 este natural \u0219i permis, dar odat\u0103 cu trecerea timpului am realizat c\u0103 degeaba fug \u0219i e momentul s\u0103 stau fa\u021b\u0103 \u00een fa\u021b\u0103 la o discu\u021bie cu sexualitatea mea.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><b>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a04.\u00a0 Ce reac\u021bie au avut cei din jur?<\/b><b><\/b><\/p>\n<ul style=\"text-align: left;\">\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">P\u0103rin\u021bii mei au fost \u0219oca\u021bi \u0219i au reactionat ur\u00e2t, iar cei din jurul meu au fost indiferen\u021bi.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Au fost cool with it, am spus doar persoanelor apropiate. M-am bucurat c\u0103 nu au r\u0103spuns negativ.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ceilal\u021bi au avut reac\u021bii mixte, prietenii apropia\u021bi la care le-am spus au fost foarte supportive, \u00eens\u0103 p\u0103rin\u021bii mei au fost dificili. La \u00eenceput au r\u00e2s de idee, dup\u0103 o vreme \u00eemi spuneau c\u0103 e doar o faz\u0103, iar c\u00e2nd au realizat c\u0103 nu e o faz\u0103 au fost foarte dezam\u0103gi\u021bi. Totu\u0219i, cu timpul, au devenit mult mai sus\u021bin\u0103tori \u0219i acum sunt allies.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Reac\u021bia celor din jur c\u0103rora am avut \u00eencredere s\u0103 le zic a fost una foarte supportive, dar persoane care au aflat f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 vreau au \u00eenceput s\u0103 m\u0103 batjocoreasc\u0103 \u0219i la un moment dat s\u0103 ne h\u0103r\u021buiasc\u0103 pe mine \u0219i pe iubita mea la timpul respectiv.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mama didn\u2019t take it well at all, era s\u0103 ajung pe str\u0103zi, mi-a spus c\u0103 se va \u00eemboln\u0103vi de inima dac\u0103 nu m\u0103 voi schimba.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Difer\u0103 evident de la persoan\u0103 la persoan\u0103, eu cel pu\u021bin \u00eenc\u0103 \u00eemi aleg foarte atent cui ii men\u021bionez asta sau nu, dar reac\u021bia persoanelor din jurul meu a fost spre pl\u0103cuta mea surprindere una de suport \u0219i de acceptare, dar exist\u0103 \u0219i mici excep\u021bii unde s-a resim\u021bit critica la maxim.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><b>\u00a0 \u00a0 5.\u00a0 Cum te-a afectat reac\u021bia lor?<\/b><b><\/b><\/p>\n<ul style=\"text-align: left;\">\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">M-a afectat mai mult decat credeam. Eram doar un copil care avea nevoie de sus\u021binere.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nu m-a afectat prea mult, m-am bucurat s\u0103 m\u0103 simt sus\u021binut\u0103.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Personal \u0219tiam c\u0103 nu va fi o faz\u0103, \u00eens\u0103 perioada \u00een care au fost dezam\u0103gi\u021bi a fost una dintre cele mai grele perioade pentru mine. Am sim\u021bit c\u0103 sunt o persoan\u0103 stricat\u0103 \u0219i c\u0103 ceva nu este \u00een regul\u0103 cu mine, a\u0219 fi dat orice s\u0103 fiu &#8222;normal\u0103&#8221;.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><b>\u00a0 \u00a0 6. Ce sfat ai da persoanelor care nu \u0219i-au f\u0103cut come out-ul?<\/b><b><\/b><\/p>\n<ul style=\"text-align: left;\">\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nu te gr\u0103bi \u0219i f\u0103-o \u00eentr-un spa\u021biu \u00een care te sim\u021bi 100% sigur, altfel mai bine nu.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">F\u0103-o doar dac\u0103 e\u0219ti m\u0103car 80% sigur c\u0103 iese bine.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pentru oricine care nu \u0219i-a f\u0103cut coming out-ul recomand s\u0103 se asigure c\u0103 sunt \u00eentr-un mediu sigur dac\u0103 doresc s\u0103 \u00eel fac\u0103, deoarece siguran\u021ba lor este mai presus de orice. De asemenea nu ai nevoie de &#8222;coming out party&#8221; ca s\u0103 apar\u021bii comunit\u0103\u021bii.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cel mai bun sfat pe care l-a\u0219 putea da ar fi s\u0103 se asigure c\u0103 sunt \u00eentr-un grup de prieteni supportive sau s\u0103 se al\u0103ture unuia (sunt multe grupuri LGBT pe Facebook).<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Niciodat\u0103 nu o s\u0103 vin\u0103 momentul potrivit, f\u0103-o c\u00e2nd sim\u021bi c\u0103 vine natural \u0219i nu te g\u00e2ndi la repercusiuni, alea oricum se vor \u00eent\u00e2mpla. Reac\u021biile celor din jur nu sunt predictibile, prin urmare trebuie s\u0103-\u021bi asumi \u0219i o reac\u021bie negativ\u0103.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">S\u0103 fac\u0103 ceea ce simt, s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i aib\u0103 come out-ul c\u00e2nd consider\u0103, there&#8217;s no pressure. Just be yourself.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Un sfat pe care l-a\u0219 da persoanelor care nu \u0219i-au f\u0103cut \u00eenc\u0103 come out-ul e sa a\u0219tepte momentul potrivit, s\u0103 fie asuma\u021bi \u0219i m\u00e2ndri de ce sexualitate sau gender au pentru c\u0103 nu e nimic de care s\u0103 ne fie ru\u0219ine, avem tot dreptul s\u0103 fim ferici\u021bi \u0219i s\u0103 aib\u0103 grij\u0103 cui spun pentru c\u0103 nici m\u0103car \u00een ziua de ast\u0103zi nu suntem \u00een total\u0103 siguran\u021b\u0103 c\u00e2nd vine vorba de acest subiect.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><b>\u00a0 \u00a07. Ce sfat ai da persoanelor aliate\/p\u0103rin\u021bilor cu copii care fac parte din comunitate?<\/b><b><\/b><\/p>\n<ul style=\"text-align: left;\">\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Accept your people, at least tolerate them. \u00cencerca\u021bi s\u0103 v\u0103 accepta\u021bi copiii \u0219i nu-i \u00eendep\u0103rta\u021bi, ne doare enorm.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pentru oricine care cunoa\u0219te persoane din comunitate, sus\u021binerea voastr\u0103 este extrem de apreciat\u0103, cu to\u021bii suntem oameni \u0219i dorim s\u0103 fim trata\u021bi ca atare.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Acceptarea vine \u00een diferite feluri, trebuie s\u0103 \u00eenve\u021bi s\u0103 te accep\u021bi at\u00e2t pe sine c\u00e2t \u0219i pe cei din jur, nu conteaz\u0103 c\u00e2t de greu \u00ee\u021bi este, dac\u0103-\u021bi iube\u0219ti copilul sau prietenul o s\u0103 \u00eencerci s\u0103 accep\u021bi chiar dac\u0103 nu-\u021bi convine. Iubirea e oarb\u0103, important e s\u0103 nu fim mai orbi ca ea.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><b>\u00a0 \u00a08. Care este cea mai mare piedic\u0103 \u00eent\u00e2lnit\u0103 de tine ca persoan\u0103 queer \u00een Rom\u00e2nia?<\/b><b><\/b><\/p>\n<ul style=\"text-align: left;\">\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Stigma \u0219i prejudec\u0103\u021bile create de biseric\u0103 \u0219i religie.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dificultatea de a te exprima \u00een public de \u00a0 \u00a0 frica discrimin\u0103rii \u0219i a violen\u021bei.\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Incapabilitatea de a fi affectionate cu persoane de acela\u0219i sex, de\u0219i ca persoan\u0103 de sex feminin e mai tolerat.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Stigmatizarea comunit\u0103\u021bii.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Homofobia casual\/cea acceptat\u0103 \u00een societate sub form\u0103 de glum\u0103.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Momentan, faptul c\u0103 simt c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 ascund asta fa\u021b\u0103 de p\u0103rin\u021bii mei. Sunt genul de p\u0103rin\u021bi care se a\u0219teapt\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 c\u0103s\u0103toresc \u0219i s\u0103 am copii, fiindc\u0103 vor nepo\u021bi \u0219i a\u0219a e &#8222;normal&#8221;. Am impresia c\u0103 nu m-ar lua \u00een serios sau ar fi revolta\u021bi dac\u0103 le-a\u0219 spune, a\u0219a c\u0103 g\u00e2ndul de a avea o rela\u021bie queer m\u0103 sperie \u00een aceast\u0103 privin\u021b\u0103.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Reticen\u021ba oamenilor de a asculta alte p\u0103reri, de a fi deschi\u0219i la situa\u021bii \u0219i experien\u021be noi. O \u00eenc\u0103p\u0103\u021b\u00e2nare asupra tradi\u021bionalului, asupra \u201cnormalului\u201d care de fapt nu e normal.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Refuz de la fiecare banc\u0103 pt. credit ipotecar cu partenera mea pt un apartament \u00eempreun\u0103.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><b>\u00a0 \u00a09. Descrie\u021bi\u00a0 journey-ul de descoperire\u00a0 de sine<\/b><b><\/b><\/p>\n<ul style=\"text-align: left;\">\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Destul de lung \u00eentruc\u00e2t mi-a fost greu s\u0103 accept ideea c\u0103 a\u0219 fi orice \u00een afar\u0103 de heterosexual\u0103.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mi-am dat seama c\u0103 sunt queer foarte devreme \u0219i am avut norocul s\u0103 am un grup de prieteni de asemenea queer \u0219i p\u0103rin\u021bi care s\u0103 nu fie homofobi, astfel nu prea am avut o perioad\u0103 \u00een care am fost closeted sau un conflict interior cu sexualitatea mea.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Am avut norocul extraordinar de a face parte dintr un grup de oameni minuna\u021bi, care \u0219i-au dat seama \u00eenaintea mea de orientarea lor sexual\u0103. Afl\u00e2ndu-m\u0103 \u00eentr-un colectiv at\u00e2t de frumos a fost doar o chestiune de timp p\u00e2n\u0103 mi-am dat \u0219i eu la r\u00e2ndul meu seama c\u0103 fac parte din comunitate.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Incomplet, \u00eenc\u0103 nu sunt \u00een totalitate comod\u0103 cu sexualitatea mea \u0219i mai am multe de experimentat.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pe scurt, niciodat\u0103 nu am exclus posibilitatea s\u0103 \u00eemi plac\u0103 \u0219i fetele, dar abia \u00een liceu m-am &#8222;trezit&#8221;, prima dat\u0103 crez\u00e2nd c\u0103 e vorba doar de atrac\u021bie fizic\u0103, iar mai apoi av\u00e2nd \u0219i sentimente romantice pentru cineva. Pe parcurs am avut dubiile \u0219i grijile mele, g\u00e2ndindu-m\u0103 c\u0103 poate sunt doar confuz\u0103 \u0219i c\u0103 nu voi fi luat\u0103 \u00een serios pentru c\u0103 mi-a luat a\u0219a mult timp s\u0103-mi dau seama, timp \u00een care to\u021bi prietenii mei \u0219tiau c\u0103 sunt straight.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Interesant. Am realizat t\u00e2rziu c\u0103 sunt queer (la 19 ani), dar de atunci m\u0103 simt liber\u0103. Sim\u021beam c\u0103 ceva lipse\u0219te din rela\u021biile heterosexuale pe care le-am avut, lipsea nivelul de conexiune pe care nu-l puteam avea dec\u00e2t cu o femeie. Asta m-a f\u0103cut \u0219i s\u0103 m\u0103 simt complet\u0103, mai \u00eencrez\u0103toare \u00een a m\u0103 descoperi pe mine ca individ. Asumarea identit\u0103\u021bii sexuale \u0219i de gen mi-a conferit un confort dup\u0103 care am t\u00e2njit mult\u0103 vreme.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><b>\u00a0 \u00a0 10. Ce persoane te inspir\u0103?<\/b><b><\/b><\/p>\n<ul style=\"text-align: left;\">\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Patti Smith, Stevie Nicks.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Toate persoanele queer din \u021b\u0103ri precum Rom\u00e2nia care au perseverat prin munc\u0103 \u00een ciuda dificult\u0103\u021bilor pe care le impune societatea.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Persoanele din jurul meu c\u0103rora nu le este fric\u0103 s\u0103 se afirme dup\u0103 bunul plac, fiind necondi\u021bionate de presiunile sociale. (exprimarea prin gesturi, \u00eenf\u0103\u021bi\u0219are \u0219.a.m.d.).\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">RuPaul!!<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00cen special oamenii care provin din medii mai ostile fa\u021b\u0103 de comunitate, dar care nu se ascund \u0219i sunt ei \u00een\u0219i\u0219i.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Personal, cele din domeniul psihologiei (fiind ramura pe care eu o studiez), \u00een special the.holistic.psychologist care e o psiholoag\u0103 \u0219i scriitoare queer extraordinar\u0103. G\u0103sesc o bucurie incredibil\u0103 \u00een cultura drag-ului, a\u0219a c\u0103 scena de drag \u0219i voguing au umplut o parte care a fost mult timp goal\u0103 din mine. M\u0103 inspir\u0103 s\u0103 fiu eu, cu toat\u0103 creativitatea exagerat\u0103 \u0219i supradimensionat\u0103 pe care o ofer\u0103 publicului. Actorii \u0219i activi\u0219tii queer de asemenea \u00ee\u021bi ofer\u0103 speran\u021b\u0103 pentru un viitor mai bun pentru noi.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><b>\u00a0 \u00a011. Ai mai vrea s\u0103 ne spui ceva?<\/b><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400; text-align: left;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A\u0219 vrea s\u0103 pot duce un trai comod \u00een \u021bar\u0103, dar din p\u0103cate nu sunt foarte optimist \u00een privin\u021ba \u00eembun\u0103t\u0103\u021birii drepturilor pentru persoanele queer. Totu\u0219i continui s\u0103 am un pic de speran\u021b\u0103 \ud83d\ude42<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400; text-align: left;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">M\u0103 bucur tare c\u0103 persoane din genera\u021bia mea sunt at\u00e2t de implicate \u00een a face o schimbare.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400; text-align: left;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00cei \u00eendemn pe tineri s\u0103 aib\u0103 curaj pentru a fi ei!<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>text: Antonia Ianc si Cezar Popescu ilustratie: Cristina R\u0103doaica E final de iunie, adic\u0103 final de Pride Month, dar cred c\u0103 de\u0219i suntem la final, nu ar trebui s\u0103 l\u0103s\u0103m luna asta \u00een spate. Lupta pentru drepturi egale nu se opre\u0219te niciodat\u0103, motiv pentru care azi am decis s\u0103 scoatem \u00een fa\u021b\u0103 impresiile \u0219i g\u00e2ndurile [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":6558,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"on","_et_pb_old_content":"<h4>text: Antonia Ianc si Cezar Popescu<\/h4><h4>ilustratie: Cristina R\u0103doaica<\/h4><p style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">E final de iunie, adic\u0103 final de Pride Month, dar cred c\u0103 de\u0219i suntem la final, nu ar trebui s\u0103 l\u0103s\u0103m luna asta \u00een spate. Lupta pentru drepturi egale nu se opre\u0219te niciodat\u0103, motiv pentru care azi am decis s\u0103 scoatem \u00een fa\u021b\u0103 impresiile \u0219i g\u00e2ndurile unor oameni din comunitatea LGBTQIA+, care ne-au povestit pu\u021bin din ceea ce tr\u0103iesc ei \u00een fiecare zi.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">(Comunitatea LGBTQIA+ este, din p\u0103cate, \u00een continuare r\u0103u v\u0103zut\u0103 \u00een Rom\u00e2nia, motiv pentru care numele persoanelor cu care am discutat vor r\u0103m\u00e2ne anonime. De asemenea, \u00eentreb\u0103rile sunt adresate unor persoane diferite)<\/span><b><\/b><\/p><p style=\"text-align: left;\"><b>\u00a0 \u00a0 1. C\u00e2nd \u021bi-ai f\u0103cut primul come out?<\/b><\/p><ul style=\"text-align: left;\"><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Final de clasa a 7-a, mamei mele.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Primul come out prietenilor l-am f\u0103cut \u00een aprilie 2019, crez\u00e2nd c\u0103 sunt asexual\u0103 pentru c\u0103 nu sim\u021beam atrac\u021bie fa\u021b\u0103 de nimeni.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Primul come out l-am avut \u00een contextul grupului meu de prieteni \u0219i pot spune c\u0103 a fost unul dintre cele mai importante momente din via\u021ba mea, m-am sim\u021bit ca \u0219i cum \u00een sf\u00e2r\u0219it am trecut peste orice fel de fric\u0103 \u0219i am putut sa fiu m\u00e2ndr\u0103 de sexualitatea mea.<\/span><\/li><\/ul><p style=\"text-align: left;\"><b>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 2. Ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 coming out-ul pentru tine?<\/b><b><\/b><b><\/b><\/p><ul style=\"text-align: left;\"><li aria-level=\"1\">\u00censeamn\u0103 s\u0103 am \u00eencredere \u00een toat\u0103 lumea care m\u0103 \u00eenconjoar\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 m\u0103 simt at\u00e2t de safe \u0219i lipsit\u0103 de prejudec\u0103\u021bi \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 pot fi deschis\u0103 cu faptul c\u0103 sunt bi. Nu cred c\u0103 datorez nim\u0103nui explica\u021bii, dar \u00eemi doresc c\u00e2ndva s\u0103 pot purta o conversa\u021bie cu cineva random \u0219i c\u00e2nd ar veni momentul s\u0103 spun c\u0103 sunt queer s\u0103 o fac without second thoughts.<\/li><li aria-level=\"1\">S\u0103 m\u0103 simt destul de safe cu o persoan\u0103 ca s\u0103 pot s\u0103 m\u0103 deschid \u00een leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu sexualitatea mea.<\/li><li aria-level=\"1\">Ca mul\u021bi al\u021bii, mi se pare c\u0103 ideea de a-\u021bi anun\u021ba oficial orientarea sexual\u0103 sau identitatea de gen pune presiune inutil\u0103 asupra oamenilor \u0219i \u00eent\u0103re\u0219te no\u021biunea c\u0103 straight este standardul, normalul. Pentru mine, coming out-ul a \u00eensemnat s\u0103 le spun prima dat\u0103 prietenilor mei despre sentimentele pe care le aveam pentru o fat\u0103, a\u0219a cum le-a\u0219 fi spus despre orice alt crush.<\/li><li aria-level=\"1\">Libertate, asumare, autonomie, dar \u0219i comunitate (conexiune).<\/li><li aria-level=\"1\">Eliberare,motiva\u021bie.<\/li><\/ul><p style=\"text-align: left;\"><b>\u00a0 \u00a0 3. Care a fost momentul \u00een care ai realizat c\u0103 faci parte din comunitate?<\/b><b><\/b><\/p><ul style=\"text-align: left;\"><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Momentul \u00een care am realizat c\u0103 fac parte a fost interesant, nu pot s\u0103 numesc exact un eveniment, au fost mai multe, dar \u00een momentul \u00een care am sim\u021bit fluturi \u00een stomac pentru o fat\u0103 mi-a picat fisa.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nu cred c\u0103 a fost neap\u0103rat un moment anume, \u0219tiam asta \u00eenc\u0103 de c\u00e2nd eram mic\u0103, dar nu credeam c\u0103 exist\u0103 o etichet\u0103 pentru asta sau c\u0103 este natural \u0219i permis, dar odat\u0103 cu trecerea timpului am realizat c\u0103 degeaba fug \u0219i e momentul s\u0103 stau fa\u021b\u0103 \u00een fa\u021b\u0103 la o discu\u021bie cu sexualitatea mea.\u00a0<\/span><\/li><\/ul><p style=\"text-align: left;\"><b>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a04.\u00a0 Ce reac\u021bie au avut cei din jur?<\/b><b><\/b><\/p><ul style=\"text-align: left;\"><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">P\u0103rin\u021bii mei au fost \u0219oca\u021bi \u0219i au reactionat ur\u00e2t, iar cei din jurul meu au fost indiferen\u021bi.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Au fost cool with it, am spus doar persoanelor apropiate. M-am bucurat c\u0103 nu au r\u0103spuns negativ.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ceilal\u021bi au avut reac\u021bii mixte, prietenii apropia\u021bi la care le-am spus au fost foarte supportive, \u00eens\u0103 p\u0103rin\u021bii mei au fost dificili. La \u00eenceput au r\u00e2s de idee, dup\u0103 o vreme \u00eemi spuneau c\u0103 e doar o faz\u0103, iar c\u00e2nd au realizat c\u0103 nu e o faz\u0103 au fost foarte dezam\u0103gi\u021bi. Totu\u0219i, cu timpul, au devenit mult mai sus\u021bin\u0103tori \u0219i acum sunt allies.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Reac\u021bia celor din jur c\u0103rora am avut \u00eencredere s\u0103 le zic a fost una foarte supportive, dar persoane care au aflat f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 vreau au \u00eenceput s\u0103 m\u0103 batjocoreasc\u0103 \u0219i la un moment dat s\u0103 ne h\u0103r\u021buiasc\u0103 pe mine \u0219i pe iubita mea la timpul respectiv.\u00a0<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mama didn\u2019t take it well at all, era s\u0103 ajung pe str\u0103zi, mi-a spus c\u0103 se va \u00eemboln\u0103vi de inima dac\u0103 nu m\u0103 voi schimba.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Difer\u0103 evident de la persoan\u0103 la persoan\u0103, eu cel pu\u021bin \u00eenc\u0103 \u00eemi aleg foarte atent cui ii men\u021bionez asta sau nu, dar reac\u021bia persoanelor din jurul meu a fost spre pl\u0103cuta mea surprindere una de suport \u0219i de acceptare, dar exist\u0103 \u0219i mici excep\u021bii unde s-a resim\u021bit critica la maxim.<\/span><\/li><\/ul><p style=\"text-align: left;\"><b>\u00a0 \u00a0 5.\u00a0 Cum te-a afectat reac\u021bia lor?<\/b><b><\/b><\/p><ul style=\"text-align: left;\"><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">M-a afectat mai mult decat credeam. Eram doar un copil care avea nevoie de sus\u021binere.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nu m-a afectat prea mult, m-am bucurat s\u0103 m\u0103 simt sus\u021binut\u0103.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Personal \u0219tiam c\u0103 nu va fi o faz\u0103, \u00eens\u0103 perioada \u00een care au fost dezam\u0103gi\u021bi a fost una dintre cele mai grele perioade pentru mine. Am sim\u021bit c\u0103 sunt o persoan\u0103 stricat\u0103 \u0219i c\u0103 ceva nu este \u00een regul\u0103 cu mine, a\u0219 fi dat orice s\u0103 fiu \"normal\u0103\".<\/span><\/li><\/ul><p style=\"text-align: left;\"><b>\u00a0 \u00a0 6. Ce sfat ai da persoanelor care nu \u0219i-au f\u0103cut come out-ul?<\/b><b><\/b><\/p><ul style=\"text-align: left;\"><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nu te gr\u0103bi \u0219i f\u0103-o \u00eentr-un spa\u021biu \u00een care te sim\u021bi 100% sigur, altfel mai bine nu.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">F\u0103-o doar dac\u0103 e\u0219ti m\u0103car 80% sigur c\u0103 iese bine.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pentru oricine care nu \u0219i-a f\u0103cut coming out-ul recomand s\u0103 se asigure c\u0103 sunt \u00eentr-un mediu sigur dac\u0103 doresc s\u0103 \u00eel fac\u0103, deoarece siguran\u021ba lor este mai presus de orice. De asemenea nu ai nevoie de \"coming out party\" ca s\u0103 apar\u021bii comunit\u0103\u021bii.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cel mai bun sfat pe care l-a\u0219 putea da ar fi s\u0103 se asigure c\u0103 sunt \u00eentr-un grup de prieteni supportive sau s\u0103 se al\u0103ture unuia (sunt multe grupuri LGBT pe Facebook).<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Niciodat\u0103 nu o s\u0103 vin\u0103 momentul potrivit, f\u0103-o c\u00e2nd sim\u021bi c\u0103 vine natural \u0219i nu te g\u00e2ndi la repercusiuni, alea oricum se vor \u00eent\u00e2mpla. Reac\u021biile celor din jur nu sunt predictibile, prin urmare trebuie s\u0103-\u021bi asumi \u0219i o reac\u021bie negativ\u0103.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">S\u0103 fac\u0103 ceea ce simt, s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i aib\u0103 come out-ul c\u00e2nd consider\u0103, there's no pressure. Just be yourself.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Un sfat pe care l-a\u0219 da persoanelor care nu \u0219i-au f\u0103cut \u00eenc\u0103 come out-ul e sa a\u0219tepte momentul potrivit, s\u0103 fie asuma\u021bi \u0219i m\u00e2ndri de ce sexualitate sau gender au pentru c\u0103 nu e nimic de care s\u0103 ne fie ru\u0219ine, avem tot dreptul s\u0103 fim ferici\u021bi \u0219i s\u0103 aib\u0103 grij\u0103 cui spun pentru c\u0103 nici m\u0103car \u00een ziua de ast\u0103zi nu suntem \u00een total\u0103 siguran\u021b\u0103 c\u00e2nd vine vorba de acest subiect.<\/span><\/li><\/ul><p style=\"text-align: left;\"><b>\u00a0 \u00a07. Ce sfat ai da persoanelor aliate\/p\u0103rin\u021bilor cu copii care fac parte din comunitate?<\/b><b><\/b><\/p><ul style=\"text-align: left;\"><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Accept your people, at least tolerate them. \u00cencerca\u021bi s\u0103 v\u0103 accepta\u021bi copiii \u0219i nu-i \u00eendep\u0103rta\u021bi, ne doare enorm.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pentru oricine care cunoa\u0219te persoane din comunitate, sus\u021binerea voastr\u0103 este extrem de apreciat\u0103, cu to\u021bii suntem oameni \u0219i dorim s\u0103 fim trata\u021bi ca atare.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Acceptarea vine \u00een diferite feluri, trebuie s\u0103 \u00eenve\u021bi s\u0103 te accep\u021bi at\u00e2t pe sine c\u00e2t \u0219i pe cei din jur, nu conteaz\u0103 c\u00e2t de greu \u00ee\u021bi este, dac\u0103-\u021bi iube\u0219ti copilul sau prietenul o s\u0103 \u00eencerci s\u0103 accep\u021bi chiar dac\u0103 nu-\u021bi convine. Iubirea e oarb\u0103, important e s\u0103 nu fim mai orbi ca ea.<\/span><\/li><\/ul><p style=\"text-align: left;\"><b>\u00a0 \u00a08. Care este cea mai mare piedic\u0103 \u00eent\u00e2lnit\u0103 de tine ca persoan\u0103 queer \u00een Rom\u00e2nia?<\/b><b><\/b><\/p><ul style=\"text-align: left;\"><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Stigma \u0219i prejudec\u0103\u021bile create de biseric\u0103 \u0219i religie.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dificultatea de a te exprima \u00een public de \u00a0 \u00a0 frica discrimin\u0103rii \u0219i a violen\u021bei.\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Incapabilitatea de a fi affectionate cu persoane de acela\u0219i sex, de\u0219i ca persoan\u0103 de sex feminin e mai tolerat.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Stigmatizarea comunit\u0103\u021bii.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Homofobia casual\/cea acceptat\u0103 \u00een societate sub form\u0103 de glum\u0103.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Momentan, faptul c\u0103 simt c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 ascund asta fa\u021b\u0103 de p\u0103rin\u021bii mei. Sunt genul de p\u0103rin\u021bi care se a\u0219teapt\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 c\u0103s\u0103toresc \u0219i s\u0103 am copii, fiindc\u0103 vor nepo\u021bi \u0219i a\u0219a e \"normal\". Am impresia c\u0103 nu m-ar lua \u00een serios sau ar fi revolta\u021bi dac\u0103 le-a\u0219 spune, a\u0219a c\u0103 g\u00e2ndul de a avea o rela\u021bie queer m\u0103 sperie \u00een aceast\u0103 privin\u021b\u0103.\u00a0<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Reticen\u021ba oamenilor de a asculta alte p\u0103reri, de a fi deschi\u0219i la situa\u021bii \u0219i experien\u021be noi. O \u00eenc\u0103p\u0103\u021b\u00e2nare asupra tradi\u021bionalului, asupra \u201cnormalului\u201d care de fapt nu e normal.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Refuz de la fiecare banc\u0103 pt. credit ipotecar cu partenera mea pt un apartament \u00eempreun\u0103.<\/span><\/li><\/ul><p style=\"text-align: left;\"><b>\u00a0 \u00a09. Descrie\u021bi\u00a0 journey-ul de descoperire\u00a0 de sine<\/b><b><\/b><\/p><ul style=\"text-align: left;\"><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Destul de lung \u00eentruc\u00e2t mi-a fost greu s\u0103 accept ideea c\u0103 a\u0219 fi orice \u00een afar\u0103 de heterosexual\u0103.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mi-am dat seama c\u0103 sunt queer foarte devreme \u0219i am avut norocul s\u0103 am un grup de prieteni de asemenea queer \u0219i p\u0103rin\u021bi care s\u0103 nu fie homofobi, astfel nu prea am avut o perioad\u0103 \u00een care am fost closeted sau un conflict interior cu sexualitatea mea.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Am avut norocul extraordinar de a face parte dintr un grup de oameni minuna\u021bi, care \u0219i-au dat seama \u00eenaintea mea de orientarea lor sexual\u0103. Afl\u00e2ndu-m\u0103 \u00eentr-un colectiv at\u00e2t de frumos a fost doar o chestiune de timp p\u00e2n\u0103 mi-am dat \u0219i eu la r\u00e2ndul meu seama c\u0103 fac parte din comunitate.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Incomplet, \u00eenc\u0103 nu sunt \u00een totalitate comod\u0103 cu sexualitatea mea \u0219i mai am multe de experimentat.\u00a0<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pe scurt, niciodat\u0103 nu am exclus posibilitatea s\u0103 \u00eemi plac\u0103 \u0219i fetele, dar abia \u00een liceu m-am \"trezit\", prima dat\u0103 crez\u00e2nd c\u0103 e vorba doar de atrac\u021bie fizic\u0103, iar mai apoi av\u00e2nd \u0219i sentimente romantice pentru cineva. Pe parcurs am avut dubiile \u0219i grijile mele, g\u00e2ndindu-m\u0103 c\u0103 poate sunt doar confuz\u0103 \u0219i c\u0103 nu voi fi luat\u0103 \u00een serios pentru c\u0103 mi-a luat a\u0219a mult timp s\u0103-mi dau seama, timp \u00een care to\u021bi prietenii mei \u0219tiau c\u0103 sunt straight.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Interesant. Am realizat t\u00e2rziu c\u0103 sunt queer (la 19 ani), dar de atunci m\u0103 simt liber\u0103. Sim\u021beam c\u0103 ceva lipse\u0219te din rela\u021biile heterosexuale pe care le-am avut, lipsea nivelul de conexiune pe care nu-l puteam avea dec\u00e2t cu o femeie. Asta m-a f\u0103cut \u0219i s\u0103 m\u0103 simt complet\u0103, mai \u00eencrez\u0103toare \u00een a m\u0103 descoperi pe mine ca individ. Asumarea identit\u0103\u021bii sexuale \u0219i de gen mi-a conferit un confort dup\u0103 care am t\u00e2njit mult\u0103 vreme.<\/span><\/li><\/ul><p style=\"text-align: left;\"><b>\u00a0 \u00a0 10. Ce persoane te inspir\u0103?<\/b><b><\/b><\/p><ul style=\"text-align: left;\"><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Patti Smith, Stevie Nicks.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Toate persoanele queer din \u021b\u0103ri precum Rom\u00e2nia care au perseverat prin munc\u0103 \u00een ciuda dificult\u0103\u021bilor pe care le impune societatea.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Persoanele din jurul meu c\u0103rora nu le este fric\u0103 s\u0103 se afirme dup\u0103 bunul plac, fiind necondi\u021bionate de presiunile sociale. (exprimarea prin gesturi, \u00eenf\u0103\u021bi\u0219are \u0219.a.m.d.).\u00a0<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">RuPaul!!<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00cen special oamenii care provin din medii mai ostile fa\u021b\u0103 de comunitate, dar care nu se ascund \u0219i sunt ei \u00een\u0219i\u0219i.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Personal, cele din domeniul psihologiei (fiind ramura pe care eu o studiez), \u00een special the.holistic.psychologist care e o psiholoag\u0103 \u0219i scriitoare queer extraordinar\u0103. G\u0103sesc o bucurie incredibil\u0103 \u00een cultura drag-ului, a\u0219a c\u0103 scena de drag \u0219i voguing au umplut o parte care a fost mult timp goal\u0103 din mine. M\u0103 inspir\u0103 s\u0103 fiu eu, cu toat\u0103 creativitatea exagerat\u0103 \u0219i supradimensionat\u0103 pe care o ofer\u0103 publicului. Actorii \u0219i activi\u0219tii queer de asemenea \u00ee\u021bi ofer\u0103 speran\u021b\u0103 pentru un viitor mai bun pentru noi.<\/span><\/li><\/ul><p style=\"text-align: left;\"><b>\u00a0 \u00a011. Ai mai vrea s\u0103 ne spui ceva?<\/b><\/p><ol><li style=\"font-weight: 400; text-align: left;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A\u0219 vrea s\u0103 pot duce un trai comod \u00een \u021bar\u0103, dar din p\u0103cate nu sunt foarte optimist \u00een privin\u021ba \u00eembun\u0103t\u0103\u021birii drepturilor pentru persoanele queer. Totu\u0219i continui s\u0103 am un pic de speran\u021b\u0103 :)<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400; text-align: left;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">M\u0103 bucur tare c\u0103 persoane din genera\u021bia mea sunt at\u00e2t de implicate \u00een a face o schimbare.\u00a0<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400; text-align: left;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00cei \u00eendemn pe tineri s\u0103 aib\u0103 curaj pentru a fi ei!<\/span><\/li><\/ol>","_et_gb_content_width":"","_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[2,32],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6553","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-articole","category-articole-feminism-hertimeromania"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/hertimeromania.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6553","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/hertimeromania.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/hertimeromania.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hertimeromania.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hertimeromania.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6553"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/hertimeromania.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6553\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6563,"href":"https:\/\/hertimeromania.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6553\/revisions\/6563"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hertimeromania.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6558"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/hertimeromania.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6553"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hertimeromania.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6553"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hertimeromania.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6553"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}